see everyone gives a different version of the same answer

suspensions goosed,
some say raise rear preload, some say lower front compression
all i know is, im not the stig
i need to understand in my head what every adjustment i make actually does to the ride then i can figure it out
suspension setup isnt my best hobby really, ive been told im too light (9 stone) and need a lighter rear shock
the degree of wobble or weave is affected by the speed and road surface regardless of whether i completely lose control or not
an extra bit of negligence once it starts would end up in something like that tt vid
tank slapper or weave, same thing on different levels
it happens on str8 roads as well as bends
whats my definitive answer?
i dunno
i know i need to sort it out tho,
im still waiting on the bars to arrive so i gotta set it up for cafe bars for now, thats assuming its a different setup, ill check the 10 model settings against my own
whats the ammount of sag im looking for, i cant find any figures on it
having the same ammount on the front and rear is sort of like a ball park figure
i do think i should start with preload anyway
in the book, it gives figures for different weights, for example 78-86kg, 87-95kg and then the setting to go for
then theres the lowest setting which says 'under77kg' thats the setting im using now
im definately under 77kg but so is my 3 yr old nephew
im closer to 57.1526 kg
buell dont even record data for people my weight, its like the bike is designed for americans

is it gonna be like a torque wrench where you go past the readable scale and the calculations just get warped or do ya think i should follow the pattern and calculate my own settings for the lower end of the scale,
would i really benefit from lighter springs?
id like a red one in the back coz that white one looks out of place
