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Cheers all, not the end of the world, don't want to sell but if I can; one, someone gets a nice bike, two it wll help out this end at home, three, I can move ahead with my photographic side of things which I need to invest into to move on a level.
Got lots of potential changes ahead, got a job interview on Monday (yes in a job now but if I get it it means a bit more travelling but secures a better pension long term and hopefully a slightly better salary), currently reading up on Neuro Lingusitc Programming!! but not the end of the world if I don't get that either. Quite happy in the job I am doing now but an oppourtunity arose and I applied and got through to the last 5, and any interview is good experience regardless if successful or not.
Cheers all ty for interest shown, and yes I will still buy the teas next time at the cafe, not quite got to the stage where I will be sat outside the cafe with an empty cup looking for change
Steve

yep still smiling