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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 08:38 
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krafty wrote:
Hi, I am fully prepared for a 'flaming' over this, the usual 'hilarious' responses, etc, but hopefully some of you will read this and take it in the spirit it is intended before the thread is deleted, defamed, ridiculed, has endless 'Smilies ' put after it for the short term gratification of some. I really hope that there are a few of you out there that will take the time to actually consider what I am (trying) to say.

I joined this forum because I was one of those that bought a Buell after their demise, really like the bike, thought I would find a forum as I have on my previous bikes, KTM, Triumph, Kawasaki etc for useful outside the dealer network knowledge, set up stuff, worthy mods, etc, the usuall stuff really - generally make me feel good about the whole ownership thing :)

I have to say that this is the only forum that I will not bother to log on to any more, no loss for some of you I am sure, you don't know me, and I don't know you.
The problem is , that there is a really nasty strain of both negativism and frankly, bullying, which I think exists on this site, and has poisoned it for me.

I will not go over the threads which have illustrated this to me, they are long enough as it is, but the naming of 'members' in derogatory terms, little snipes, against really easy targets, the endless deriding of certain types of bike which members have bought, and then joined this site with an initial enthusiasm! Surely some of you can not be proud of this. In a bullying environment, what happens is that the lesser members all join in with a pack mentality, eager to please and avoid the ridicule themselves, thus posting a little snipe makes you both feel better, and reinforces the whole horrible ethos. You have to ask yourselves if you would post the same about all members, if not, this is bullying of the worst kind.

The response of 'ahh but we are only having a laugh :rofl: ', is the age old defence of bullies everywhere. BUT this is a public forum, free for anyone to join with a shared enthusiaism for the subject. Some people want just that out of a forum. Now I am sure that those that set this up, didn't want it to end up like this, maybe you don't really want it to be a public forum, if so - why not have it as a private members club?

BUT - as a public forum which posts, yes , on the interenet , and claims to allow anyone to join,-which can be viewed by anyone, then this site lets itself down badly in my opinion.


Nah! When you meet most of these guys and gals from this site in person, they are really nice people. They're just having fun! ;) If you get bullied (and some may even take issue with this) you should take it as a compliment that at least you instigated a response from 'rugged individuals'?.
The worst that could happen is that you get ignored. :?

Wait till your XB gives you your first service headache......that's bullying.. lOl







......but these guys will still be here to give you good valuable advice. ;)


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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 12:33 
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I do know where Krafty was coming from in his original post but i think it's just an initial impression a newbie can get when joining a forum populated by robust piss takers who have been friends or cyber friends for ages. In my very first post i was told that my pride and joy sparkly bling wheels are crap, which they may be but i still love 'em. A sensitive soul may have taken the hump and sodded off but i'm too thick for that so i baited the culprit a bit later, but he's a man of few words, most of them sarcastic and he didn't bite. I'm looking forward to hopefully meeting some of the folk on here to put faces to names this Summer, but in the meantime i'm happy reading the threads and soaking up the accumulated knowledge that is evident here. Stay safe. :old:

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:09 
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:yt:

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:27 
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c'mon Jill, your Blast doesn't have shiny wheels! lOl

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:30 
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Nah... just half an engine to everyone else....

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:34 
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'cept me, dear ;)

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:42 
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Very true :4roz:

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 13:47 
Missed this :sad1:


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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 17:09 
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...I've found everyone to be very helpful and pleasant to 'newbies' like myself.

The vast range of information and sound advice offered is worth a possible flaming.

XB9SX and very happy with the little bugger :D


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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 20:12 
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I am late on this like normal :roll:

I understand where Krafty is coming from, at my first Ukbeg meet I attended I was very nervous. I had this impression it was very cliqui, clicky, clickie,,, you know what I mean and I would have to go and sit up a corner etc,,,

well I was right,,,,, no I mean wrong lOl I was surprised how folk here were positive and welcoming.

I get hugs of Tigs :yup: brews from Adam :yup: and a bollocking from Maz ( I did just drop my bacca tin in his van engine that he'd just put all the sump guards back on :roll: :oooops: )

It would be good to see you Krafty one day.

Nate.


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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 20:27 
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If you are not a confident, ballsy-type of person, then any forum can seem intimidating.... I 'think' I have worked out what I can and cannot say..... but I am sure someone will tell me where I am going wrong..... LOL

...ooops....stampede...... lOl

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 20:54 
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Jill Brown wrote:
...ooops....stampede......


Should you be running at your age :?: :twisted: lOl lOl

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 21:01 
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:ner: you didn't ask in which direction, though.... :ner:

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 21:15 
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Does it matter-it's not like you'll get far :!: :twisted: lOl

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PostPosted: 03 Mar 2010 21:17 
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Beef wrote:
Does it matter-it's not like you'll get far :!: :twisted: lOl


LOL... you'd be surprised....

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